IML Redux & Big Fatty’s Meet ‘n Greet – Updated !
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Ramble Redhead, Joe, Lauren, Brian, Big Fatty, Luke, Jeffrey, Crawford, BJ, Omar, Denny, and William
Special Gracias to Luke, Jeffrey and Miss Lauren for providing the photos in this gallery.
LINKS:
Big Fatty's Podcast
Ramble Redhead 286 about IML weekend
Chicago’s Polish Parade
Chicago held it's 118th annual Polish Constitution Day Parade
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Polska
Easter Brunch 09
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Luke, Jeffrey, Madam X, Denny, BJ, William and Omar at Easter Brunch
Downtown Knoxville
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The Other "O"
Earth Hour in Atlanta
The Bank of America tower in Atlanta is the tallest building in the Southeast. Tonight, they switched off the signature feature of their building in recognition of Earth Hour, even if they were 10 minutes late.
During Earth Hour:
Before Earth Hour:
Momma Dale’s Wiener Party
Tonight we celebrated Momma Dale aka Yolanda Jenkins' birthday by having fun with wieners.
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I’m 35 Years Old Today
Today is my 35th birthday and it was a nice relaxing day.
This is one of the balloons from the party last night.
Visiting Cousin Omar in Atlanta
This weekend my cousin Denis, his wife Lorraine and their baby Ella visited Atlanta and me.
We ate, we drove around and overall they enjoyed it.
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Baby Ella, Lorraine and Denis
“I Have a Dream” Speech
The Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. delivers his famed "I Have Dream" speech from the steps of the
Lincoln Memorial, August 28, 1963. The speech galvanized the nation's civil rights movements and
led to the passage of the 1964 Civil Rights Act, the 1965 Voting Rights Act and the 1968 Fair Housing Act.
Source: AmericanRhetoric.com
Snowing in Atlanta
It's snowing in Atlanta!
OK, they're only flurries but that's a big deal around here.
Happy New Year!
Feliz Año Nuevo which is Happy New Year in Spanish.
Wishing everyone a great 2008!
On The Lake
It was close to 80 degrees today and we enjoyed the afternoon by going out on my brother's boat. I guess this is why people like living in Florida during holidays!
October 2007 San Francisco Trip Pictures
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Refreshing Facial
I'm enjoying a refreshing facial after a very long day of traveling
cross-country.
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Snack before Flight
A vanilla latte and a tasty veggie wrap prepare me for long flight.
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BART to SFO
I'm sad to leave San Francisco.
It's foggy and dreary outside like SF doesn't want me to go either.
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Tasty Sushi @ UMAMI
Lisa and I enjoyed delicious sushi at UMAMI.
The Zen-inspired decor coupled with the great food made for a great
dinner.
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Dolores Park & Great SF View
We're sitting in Dolores Park overlooking the San Francisco skyline.
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Yummy French Breakfast
A delicious croissant and bowl of Cafe Au Lait.
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Lunch @ Ferry Building
Another gorgeous day in San Fran and lunch at Market Bar.
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Golden Gate to Muir Woods
The Golden Gate bridge leaving SF on our way to Muir Woods for a hike.
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Korean dinner with the girls
We're all stuffed from a delicious Korean dinner at Jang Soo.
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AIDS Walk Atlanta Pre-Walk
Part of the quilt and stage in Piedmont Park before the walk.
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Rick and John’s Halloween Hat Hootenanny
Tonight, I had the pleasure of seeing Rick and John and enjoying the fun at the Halloween Hat Hootenanny.
The concept is simple - wear a hat. We all had a great time and got to meet some new folks.
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David, Omar and Doug
At the Halloween Hat Hootenanny
Nice cherry! More from the hootenanny to come.
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I love Apple’s New iPhone Web Apps
Yesterday, Apple launched Web Apps for the iPhone.
They are available directly from your iPhone at:
http://www.apple.com/webapps/
I bookmarked a bunch in Safari on my iMac, and after I sync'd my iPhone
they were all in a bookmark folder organized how I wanted them.
The best thing is that most of them are free!
Celebrating National Coming Out Day
Today, we celebrate National Coming Out Day.
If you're gay and haven't told anyone, what are you waiting for?
This day is for you!
Keith Haring, even drew a poster for this special day:
Tell someone today that doesn't know about you, that you're gay.
(or, at least consider it.)
Taking a Break
Hola chicos,
I'm taking a break to deal with some personal things.
Nos vemos pronto.
Omar
John and Michael’s Atlanta Wedding Reception
John and Michael are getting married next month but despite that they had a fantastic Atlanta wedding reception.
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John and Michael
Dinner at the Tap
Tonight we enjoyed a great dinner at the Tap.
The burgers are great (as a non-meateater I wouldn't know) However, the Cuban sandwich is quite good.
It's a great place to have a beer and ask your server for the Wi-Fi password to use the internet access.
1st post from my iPhone
I'm writing this post from new iPhone!
I want to post more often now that I can blog from almost anywhere.
Wade’s Birthday & Labor Day Weekend
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Omar and Wade on the Lake
Salvador and Sebastian
Today I got to see one of my favorite artist's work and my friends' new baby - this all after I finished my work meetings!
I'll talk more about the Salvador Dali museum on the podcast but, in the meantime, I hope you enjoy the pictures of little Sebastian.
Sarasota Monday
Today, I drove across the Sunshine Skyway Bridge, the world's longest bridge with a cable-stayed main span, and it's exactly 5.5 miles long. On the other side, I went to Sarasota.
Ricardo and Josh Weekend Fun
Wade and I visited Ricardo and Josh in their new home in St. Pete, FL.
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Omar, Wade and Josh on Ft. DeSoto Park's North Beach
Dinner with Rob and Wade
Tonight we enjoyed a delicious pork tenderloin which the Original Wade prepared.
First, we had enjoyed beverages from a real Buddha Bar
In Big Fatty’s Area
Tonight, I was privileged to be featured as a co-host on The Little Fatty Cast with Larry H. Vader, that's V-A-D-E-R!
Visiting Big Fatty's area was quite an interesting experience...
End of June Shopping Day
On Friday night, I enjoyed (Wade didn't really like it) a crisp and delicately fruity 2005 Honey Moon Viognier that I bought for only $6.49 at Trader Joe's.
And now for the shopping on Saturday...
2007 Pride Kickoff Reception
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Oscar, Wade, Jason (and Marsha's spirit fingers)
Mika Atlanta Concert Video
Wade and I had a great time at the Mika show and so did everyone else.
Watch this video and if you like the music, consider purchasing his latest CD, "Life in Carton Motion" which you can buy on iTunes by clicking here.
Atlanta May 30, 2007
I've been trying to get myself back to "North" America mode today.
We are all back safe in Atlanta. I've been doing laundry and trying to catch up on all the sleep I did NOT get on the plane.
I should have more to post this weekend.
To Buenos Aires: I say, "Chau!, Chau!"
Sunny San Diego Pictures
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Holly and I recreate the statue's recreation of a famous photo
Hoedown’s Wet Underwear Contest May 5th
[For adult audiences only.] A video of the Wet Underwear contest hosted by Knomie Moore on May 5th.
Cinco de Mayo Weekend
I'm exhausted after a wild Saturday night. We didn't make it to a Mexican restaurant but we did see the wet underwear contest at Hoedown's hosted by Knomie Moore. If you want to see all the contestants...
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Inman Park Festival 2007
Baton Bob, the Ambassador of Mirth is the Grand Marshall at this year's Inman Park Festival. This video is for mature audiences only.
South Beach Pictures
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South Beach in April
The rest of my South Beach pictures including Latin Billboard Award stage, R2D2 mailbox, Delano Hotel pool area and Colony Hotel decor.
Sunny South Beach in April
Here are some pictures from the past couple of days here in sunny South Miami Beach, FL.
The Colony Hotel on Ocean Drive in South Beach
Meeting Baby Taylor
Today, I finally got to meet my friends' Chanta and Tavaris' little boy Taylor.
Holy Saturday Snow Shower Batman!
There were snow flurries in Atlanta just after midnight and I got it on video!
[I reposted the video 1:45pm Saturday, April 14th. It should play now.]
In the process of moving…
So I'm back from NYC and I had a very busy but fun time.
I'll post pictures soon.
Right now, I have to finish moving and get at least a little settled in.
I'll be back soon.
Omar
Ybor City Pics
I'm in Tampa for work and had dinner in the Ybor City area. Check out the few pics I took.
Grilling Out with Rob and Wade
Rob and Wade invited Wade and I to some impromtu afternoon grilling and how could we resist?
Amanda Lepore Live @ Jungle in Atlanta
Wade has been wanting to meet Amanda Lepore for quite some time now. Who wouldn't want to meet
"The Number One Transsexual in the World"? I know we did.
Wade made this night happen with VIP access to Amanda Lepore herself!
See the picture gallery below and videos.
And if you want to be her friend on MySpace you can view her page here.
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Omar and Amanda Lepore
I-75 South in Atlanta at the Northside HOV Exit
This is a video I took in Atlanta of the I-75 South Northside HOV Exit.
The accident involving a bus that jumped the railing in the HOV exit is the reason for this video.
If you're unfamiliar with the bus accident, click here.
Please comment and let me know what you think.
Huntsville Road Trip
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It's Nuclear Power
Brunch & Piedmont Park with Lo-Jack
We enjoyed a yummy brunch at Bab's Midtown today. Randy gave us his usual sassy service. I got a picture of Todd and Blue-Eyed Chris but forgot to take one of Eric, Didier, James, Wade and I eating at Bab's.
James and Micah's doggie Lo-Jack joined us. That's his name! He's 3 years old and his previous owner named him Lo-Jack because he has a locator chip in him. Wade fell in love and I think, he's going to be getting a little Boston Terrier sooner than later.
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Omar and Wade at Piedmont Park
Clothes Closet Clean Up
Today Wade helped me with cleaning up my clothes closet. I donated 7 bags of clothes and stuff to charity.
So many clothes
Feliz Dia de San Valentín
Images copyrighted by www.ag.com
Feliz Dia de San Valentín or Happy Valentine's Day.
Whether you're in a romantic relationship or not, love isn't always easy.
Tell someone you love in your life, that you love them...
that's boyfriends, girlfriends, best friends, close friends, dear friends - you get the picture.
Feeling Poopy :-(
After weeks of fighting a cold, then a chest congestion and then stuffed sinuses, again. I went to see my doctor. OK, Wade suggested, no, urged me to go see my doctor as I just haven't been getting better. Traveling the past several weeks hasn't helped either.
After spending way too much money on prescriptions, (I thought I had a good healthcare plan) I've started to take pills that I hope will make me feel better.
My wine rack has turned into a tea tree - where Rioja and Pinot Nior once lived, now only tea remains.
Yee-Haw from Austin, Texas
Hola Chicos,
I'm in Austin, Texas and I have a bunch of pictures to share with you. I took a panoramic photo below and there is a link a whole gallery of pictures. Enjoy.
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Click picture for a large Panoramic version of the picture
Saturday Night Out
We started at Wahoo for dinner. Josh's friend Leslie is in town from North Carolina and he wanted to show her a good time. After Wahoo, we went to El Bar for a drink and then to the Highlands but it was too crowded and rainy so we ended up at Aprés Diem where 'Lia met a new friend. We need to find her boyfriend. Any single hetero men interested?
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Pecans and Railroads
Since I didn't drive back from Albany today, I had a chance to take a few pictures.
Hey, I’m in Albany, G A
I'm in Albany, Georgia for work and I must say it is a far cry from Las Vegas.
There is a military base around here...hmmm, excuse me, my mind just wandered.
Here are some pics as seen from my hotel window from left to right
Karaoke Redux
I'm feeling better but now I'm afraid Wade's sick.
;-(
While we rest and get better enjoy some more karaoke fun.
‘07 Vegas Round Two – Red Eye Reduction
I'm back in Atlanta, GA after taking the red eye from Las Vegas. I'm exhausticated to say the least and just now getting into the world of the living. My throat is sore from the dry air and all the germs but I'm drinking my Yogi Throat Comfort tea which is helping.
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My last couple of days in Las Vegas weren't as eventful as the first but I did get to see a view of the Vegas Strip from the top of THEhotel at the MIX lounge.
‘07 Vegas Celebrity Watch Round One
I'm in Las Vegas again this year for work and wanted to share some pics from visit so far.
Chris Hosts Karaoke Night
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Our friend Chris hosted a Karaoke Night after we enjoyed a great Indian dinner at Bollywood Masala.
Lovely Flowers on a Rainy Day
Wade's grandmother's vase filled with these orange cala lilies has brightened up this very gloomy day.
Bear Brunch
Richard, Robert, Wade, Omar, Erik and Jeff
Hangover recovery is insured when you eat comfort food.
Feliz Año Nuevo = Happy New Year!!
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Feliz Año Nuevo = Happy New Year!!
Arkansas Bears at Woof’s
The Arkansas Bears Robert and Erik are in Atlanta visiting friends for the New Year's holiday.
After recording the 201st podcast, Wade, CeeGee and I headed over to eat. [What else?]
Then, we met the guys at Woof's for a few drinks.
Erik from Arkansas, Wade, Omar
“Cuban of Spanish Origin” Dinner for James & Micah
Tonight, Wade and I hosted a "Cuban of Spanish origin" dinner for our friends James and Micah and the menu included:
Spanish Yellow Rice,
Black Beans,
Boneless thick-cut pork chops,
Tachinos, [also called tostones made from green plantains]
Spanish Red Wine
and Flan.
I actually forgot to take a picture of the guys when they were at my apartment but this is a picture before they arrived.
Ricardo, Josh, Wade and Omar Holiday Dinner
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Ricardo and Josh's Christmas Tree
Omar & Wade Celebrate Christmas
Wade's place is ready
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Solária Holiday Party
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Rob and Wade
Overwhelmed. Updating Y’all Soon.
Whew.
I'm exhausticated [it's a word I'm borrowing from Cazwell]
I've been busy with work,
a two-day business trip to Orlando,
a late work day today [I left the office at 7pm!],
holiday shopping [what is Santi Claus bringing Wade???],
when am I posting my next show? [believe me if my eyes weren't burning from the computer strain...]
Fret not chicos, I'll be bringing you a super-show soon enough to update you on everything I've been up to.
Omar
Hasta Luego Chico
From the airport to dinner, I landed in Atlanta after a business trip and met Didi for an "Hasta Luego Chico" dinner.
Omar and Didi at Surrin saying, "Hasta Luego Chico"
Chris’ Birthday Celebration
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Josh, Omar, Didi, Ricardo, Michael and the birthday boy Chris.
IKEA Helps Omar Organize
Everybody's heard of Spring Cleaning. Well chicos, I had needed some pre-holiday cleaning to occur or the papers, old statements, and receipts were going to take over.
My boyfriend Wade supervised, "Wade Eye for the "O" Guy" and now my living room/home office is a clean, organized and peaceful space.
First, we had to go to IKEA and my friend Didi or "Didrik" as his line of IKEA products is called, had to accompany us.
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Here is a video of Didrik devouring a chocolate cake at IKEA in Atlanta.
10th Annual Children’s Charity Book Drive
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Wild Limo Ride
Here's how it all started: My friend Rob's birthday is on Tuesday and he had several parties to attend tonight. Most of you are now thinking what do these two things have in common? Well, Rob decided to rent a limo to drive a group of us around so we could attend all the parties and so that no one had to drive. We love Rob.
We went to a couple of art showings, Kyle's house party and even made it to the Pah-Caw!!
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For sounds from the Limo, Click Here!
Thanksgiving 2006
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The family at Thanksgiving
Hector Wake Boarding Video
Lisa and Omar in San Francisco, California
There are many more pictures to come but here are some to get you started.
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Omar says, "Hola Chicos!" from Haight-Ashbury
Lisa and Omar in Sonoma, California
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Omar's yummy French breakfast with Greek yogurt.
Tara and Brent’s Wedding
I was Wade's guest at his friends wedding. We had a great time celebrating the night.
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Omar, Wade and Tara
It’s Fall in Atlanta
Today looking out of Wade's window I captured this overcast fall morning picture.
Out in Atlanta with Megan
Didi calls me and says, "I want to take my colleague Megan out to a drag show." And I said, "Sure."
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Here Kitty LeClaw gives Megan some advice
Thursday Night SAGA Dinner
Thanks to Wade for letting us know about Atlanta's new South African/GeorgiAn restaurant, SAGA
Wade's also going to give two special The Other O Show listeners a sneak VIP tour of SAGA on Sunday night.
The Peri Peri Prawns
Coworker Lunch & New Additions!
I had lunch today with a former coworker and friend Jinaki.
It was great to see her and catch up. Our waitress was so pregnant that when our food was delayed we figured it was because she was giving birth.
Courtney, Tim, Omar and Jinaki
And speaking of giving birth, my friend Chanta gave birth today to two boys Christian and Taylor.
Both mother and babies are doing well.
Feliciades Chanta!
Look for the Transit of Mercury Today
Today Mercury's orbit will appear like a spot on the sun today.
Be "Sun Safe" and don't look directly at the sun as much as you'd like to. This won't happen again for many years.
Check out NASA's site on Mercury's Transit here including a live webcast.
theOtherO.com Poll: Who Can Dance Better?
Wade thinks it's him and I think I did a pretty good job.
To decide for yourself, click on each picture and watch us dance.
Now it's your turn to vote:
El Azteca on a Friday Night
My friend CeeGee invited us for some margaritas on Friday night and we couldn't resist.
And more pictures by clicking here.
Omar and Wade
Atlanta Halloween 2006
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Didi and I celebrated Halloween in Atlanta.
Volunteering at the Ronald McDonald House
Today my coworkers and I did some volunteer work at the Ronald McDonald House here in Atlanta.
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Princess Ariel and Queen Omar
Little Five Points Halloween Parade 2006
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Blondie from The Clermont Lounge as:
The Grand Marshall of the Little Five Points Halloween Parade
Scissor Sisters Show at Tabernacle
Tonight, Wade and I went to the Scissor Sisters show at the Tabernacle in downtown Atlanta along with almost every gay guy I've ever known in Atlanta.
I got some video of the show on YouTube, which you can check out with the links below:
Here are some pictures:
Wade and Omar at the Scissors Sisters Show in Atlanta
Date with Wade at Ambra
Wade took me out for a yummy dinner at a place called Ambra.
My friend Lisa and I used to eat at Kelly Goggin's former restaurant called Highland Wraps and Pizza Kitchen and we loved it. So I was thrilled when Wade surprised me with a visit to her new restaurant.
The Pork tenderloin I had for dinner was delicious and the pizza Wade ordered was, well, devoured.
Hawk Video [Pah-Caw!]
This morning while as at work, I noticed a hawk swoop down outside my window and start enjoying his breakfast.
If you'd like to view a little video I took, then click on the image below.
Wahoo Dinner and Woof’s
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Wade having a great time at Woof's.
Homo Outlet Shopping Pictures
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Omar shopping at the Outlet Mall
Tuscaloosa and Birmingham, AL Trip
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My friends Jen and Mike
Omar with the Vulcan
Coffee at Caribou
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Omar, Emma and Wade at Caribou Coffee today.
Puerto Rico vs Cuba Dinner
Orlando joined Wade and I tonight for some salad and leftovers and he came ready to fight.
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OK, I'm not sure where he got the boxing gloves but they're cute, right?
Tampa Trip in September
Here are some pics from my week in Tampa, FL.
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Wade’s Cinnamon Rolls
Wade was so excited about making cinnamon rolls this morning I just had to capture the experience.
Wade presents his delicious cinnamon rolls
Mid-September Friday Night Fun
Tonight my friend Orlando joined the Atlanta nightlife after his recent move from Washington DC.
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Omar, Orlando and Wade
Wade & Omar on South Beach
I was in Miami Beach this week and got some time to enjoy the beach in the afteroon. Hey, I work hard and then play hard!
See the rest of the picture of this week's trip by clicking here.
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Wade and Omar on South Beach
Wade’s Birthday Night Out Redux
I know you're thinking, didn't Wade have his birthday night out last weekend?? Well, the answer is yes, but tonight he celebrated it with different people.
Let's face it the boy wanted more presents and festive fun out.
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Ricardo’s Flavors of Puerto Rico Dinner
Ricardo and Josh hosted a delicious dinner tonight celebrating the flavors of Puerto Rico.
Ricardo made the food, Josh made the drinks and all of us ate the food - a good division of resources if you ask me.
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'Lia has a question for everyone:
Green Market and Bab’s Brunch
Wade and I joined Leila and some friends for a stroll through Piedmont Park and the summertime Green Market.
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My special treat was being able to spend time with my doggie Rio. [Hey I still retain custody even though he lives with my ex!]
Jeff’s 42nd Bday & Blake’s Detour
Jeff, the talented photographer and local social coordinator, celebrated his 42nd birthday tonight.
(I'll explain the shirt in a moment)
Baraonda & Malena Pérez
My friend Chris organized a great night food, friends and great music.
We had bite to eat at Baraonda in midtown.
Peggy Sue Jenkins ?? Birthday
Tonight the Jenkins family united to celebrate Peggy Sue's birthday. None of us can quite figure out which number it is so we're going with question marks.
Peggy Sue: "If I'm in my 3rd trimester,is it too late to take the morning after pill?"
Friday night at Mary’s
After a wonderfully relaxing afternoon, The Other Wade and I met up with James, Micah and Brandon.
Micah's having a good time
Lakegan’s Going to DC Party
My friend Lakegan is moving to DC and we threw a party to send him off in style.
Lakegan enjoys his Mai-Tai
Podcasting Brunch at T-Dog’s House
T-Dog hosted a brunch at his house today. He made waffles, bacon, and Monique helped with "Omilettes."
We also got to meet Bristo, T-Dog's new puppy.
Hola Bristo
Dinner and Drinks with Didi
Since Didi is returning to Germany in a couple of weeks, I wanted to try and show him a good time here in Atlanta.
We ate dinner at Enoteca Carbonari in Midtown and a enjoyed a delicious meal.
Then, we walked over to Bazzaar and enjoyed some expensive cocktails and met up with my friends Micah and James.
Didi and Omar
San Francisco California Trip
My friend Lisa moved to San Francisco and I used some SkyMiles to go and visit her.
The weather couldn't have been better and we hit the town.
Here are some highlights:
Back in Atlanta, but going to Tennessee
I'm back in Atlanta and off to Chattanooga, TN for work on Tuesday.
I'll be updating the site and recording a podcast when I catch my breath.
Wade’s Birthday Dinner
My friend Wade celebrated his birthday tonight and I was glad to be a part of the celebration.
After drinks at the Solaria Showroom we ate a delicious dinner at Feast.
Birthday Wade
Birmingham Visit
Tonight, I had the opportunity to visit my friend Mike and Jen tonight.
Besides catching up and playing Trivial Pursuit 6 which is hard by the way.
Their boys Liam and Keegin
Join Me for an “Hola Hour” in San Francisco!
I'm visiting San Francisco, California for the first time this weekend.
AND, I want to meet all of my Bay Area listeners...
SO, join me for what I'm calling my "HOLA HOUR,"
it's like Happy Hour but we get to say, "Hola!" to each other.
We'll be at The Café at Market and Castro at 8.30PM on Saturday, August 5, 2006.
Who knows where we'll end up after but I look forward to meeting you all.
[And by 'all' I mean whoever shows up!]
Abrazos y Besitos,
Omar
The Café Info:
2369 Market Street
San Francisco, CA 94114
(415) 861-3847
Saturday Night with Didi
Problem:
Didi is sad, he is all the way up north in Alpharetta and all the gay fun is in midtown.
Solution: Join Omar for some gay fun inside the "fruit loop"
TGI Friday’s on a Wednesday
Tonight I met my friends Celeste, Will and Will's sister Simone at the TGI Friday's.
They had spent the late afternoon/evening at Busch Gardens while I was at the hotel's Tiki Bar.
Korean Feast
Tonight I had the distinct pleasure of enjoying an incredible Korean dinner feast with friends.
Our friend Hye-Joo [pronounced "Hey You" and pictured on the right] organized this dinner for her sister Hye-Young's visit. Since the menu is in Korean, they ordered everything for the table and eliminated the "What are ______ ?" questions that were sure to follow.
Nam, Prada, Woofs, Amsterdam
Last night I enjoyed meeting one of my listeners from Munich, Germany who's in Atlanta: Didi
and then...
Chillin’ in Chattanooga
In Chattanooga for work and decided to stay in downtown because well that's where "stuff" is located. Now you know it has to be a visitor friendly area if Omar decided he was going to go for a run! I have got to lose weight y'all.
I took these photos on my walk to dinner in the Bluff View Arts District.
I'm loving the juxtaposition of the Old South and Modern architecture in the Hunter Museum's recent renovation/expansion.
Dinner with Celeste and Will
On the drive home from work today, I got a call from my friends Celeste and Will. They were returning home after a road trip and were going to be driving through Atlanta. I said, "If you're going to be passing by my apt, you better stop in!" Besides, I had to serve them a home-cooked meal since they've hosted me several times at their home.
This is Celeste and Will on their recent road trip
Patriotic Omar
I was feeling patriotic today.
My glasses case makes a nice torch, don't you think?
Pirates of Burkhart’s
Doug, in a sling and bandanna. I thought he was promoting that new pirate movie.
Grilling out with Joey
Tonight I had the pleasure of dining with several friends and being hosted by a new one, Joey.
Joey tending the grill
Definitive Kansas City BBQ
Although we had BBQ for lunch just the other day, I was encouraged to eat the most authentic Kansas City BBQ to be found in the city.
Arthur Bryant's Barbeque was incredible and despite feeling stuffed upon exiting, it was some of the best damn barbeque I've ever had!
Sunday at Lake Tapawingo & Drive-In
After meeting up with the family for mass at the Convent of Sisters of St. Francis.
Adorable little Victoria with her dad Anthony
Atlanta Gay Pride Parade 2006
Despite my many complaints, it rained during the parade today.
Why didn't the clouds get my memo?
Click here for some photos from my experience at the Atlanta Gay Pride Parade.
Enjoy.
Gay Pride Saturday Night
Jeff invited me to a party down in East Point at this lovely home.
Gay Pride Saturday
Happy Gay Pride !
It's the time of year we gay folks celebrate being gay and you know I headed right on down to Piedmont Park for this year's festivities.
The question is, Can I look any more gay?
The answer: NO!
Gay Pride Friday
My night started with a visit to my friends James and Michah's lovely home.
While waiting for Micah, James showed me how to create one of his favorite drinks, a Pom-Margarita!
East Point Possums PALS Benefit
Last night I had the pleasure of attending the East Point Possums PALS Benefit.
This was the 9th Annual East Point Possums Benefit for PALS.
Quilts of Gee’s Bend at HIGH Museum
My friends David and Patrick treated me to an afternoon at the HIGH Museum of Art.
There is an exhibit there of quilts made by women in Gee's Bend, AL which was very interesting to see.
Dinner at the Cowtipper’s
I met a group at Cowtipper's for dinner last night.
It was as dark as a cave in the corner where we sat and my seat was most uncomfortable, but we all had a good time laughing and carrying on with our server Lynn.
Charleston Pictures
I've been in Charleston, SC the past few days and here are some assorted pics.
Patriot's Point
Ricardo’s 3rd Celebration of his 29th Birthday
Tonight we enjoyed a unique Turkish dining experience at the Cafe Istanbul.
Josh and Ricardo.
Click on their picture to get a video of what it was like.
Meeting Mike Hipp & John M
While running an errand to the Home Depot, I stumbled across this gem in the parking lot.
Fausto Fernós ain't got nothing on her!
I now take you to Norcross, GA...
Weeklong Business Trip
Everyone thinks that traveling for business is cool, and yes it has it's benefits sometimes. It also keeps you away from the people you care about, back at home.
These are some random pics of this trip over the past few days.
The great people on my team
Hanging at David’s Pool
David invited Jeremy and I to hang out by this pool today.
The weather was gorgeous so of course we accepted.
Screen On The Green: A Hard Day’s Night
Tonight I met some friends at Piedmon Park for a free, outdoor screening of A Hard Day's Night.
Pensacola Pier – AFTER the Memorial Day Festivities
Today, I was in Pensacola, Florida. If I would have been there a fews days earlier, I would have been surrounded by countless homosexuals all carrying on and having a wild time which would have been fabulous.
I suppose that's the difference between personal and business travel - with one you get to pick the dates!
Here's the Pier:
Pre-Memorial Day Drag at Burkhart’s
It's Sunday night before Memorial Day and none of us have to work tomorrow so we met up at Burkhart's for some drag.
Chris, Michael, Jeremy, Omar, Micah and James
Grapes and Gayfairs
On Saturday, Jeremy and I joined Blue Eyed Chris, Curry and gang at "Pacific Station" for the X-Menz Movie and some vino at the grape.
Jeremy and Omar at the Grape.
A Hot, Hazy day in Orlando
It's Florida, isn't it always supposed to be sunny and blue skies here? Well, when it's not thunder-storming. It's been hazy here since I arrived and it's been about 90 degrees.
One very nice thing about being down here is that for the first time in a very long time, I had a 5 minute commute to the client's office today despite having been thwarted by a passing train.
Coffee with Auntie lisa
We had coffee so Emma and Olivia could say, "See you later" to Auntie lisa.
Emma gives lisa a special gift she made herself.
Bab’s Brunch
Today we got together to have brunch at Bab's and spend time with lisa before she heads to San Francisco.
Our waiter Justin.
Lisa’s Goodbye Meetup at Meehan’s
Tonight, several friends got together at Meehan's in the Vinings to say "See You Later" to one of our very good friends, lisa. Miss lisa has accepted a great new opportunity that will take her to San Francisco. Did I mention my new iMac has a built-in iSight Web Cam?? Can you say video conference lisa??
Omar and lisa
Drive Back to Atlanta
Despite it taking 5 hours to get TO Huntsville, AL somehow it only took my 3.5 hours to return.
It was a beautiful day and I snapped a few photos on the way back.
I love computers and technology but I have to say that there is nothing more beautiful than the great outdoors. Maybe I just haven't been outside in a while but these "wide open spaces" were touching me profoundly on the drive back to Atlanta.
[perhaps I'm just so used to sitting in bumper-to-bumper traffic...]
The drive ahead
Drive to Huntsville, Alabama
Today, I drove to Huntsville, Alabama today and it seems like took forever!!
Cops blocking the highway
Sunday Afternoon at the Pool
So my friend Jeremy's friend let us hang out at his condo and pool today, [isn't that how all good Sunday afternoons start?] and here are the pictures:
Jeremy: "Mmm, this chicken tastes good!"
Hola Chicos and Chicas!
I'm changing web stuff behind the scenes to make things better.
Please excuse the mess.
Grilling with the Gays
Tonight, Jeremy and I joined Mike and Eric for some yummy grilled chicken.
Josh and Mike
Miami Trip
I visited Miami, FL for work and the weather was so nice compared to Atlanta.
The view from my hotel room down Lincoln Road, and it's 91 degrees.
Cinco de Mayo
Although I'm not Mexican there was a "Party in my Pants" this Cinco de Mayo.
My friend Lisa and I visited one of our favorite dining spots Taqueria Sundown.
Here I am with the manager George.
Then I met some folks and headedout to enjoy some gay Atlanta nightlife but that's another story.
Owls, Snakes and Huxtables, Oh My!
Today I got to meet several interesting people and animals.
Finally at the Lake House
After a long work week and lots of post-work, pre-lake errands I finally made it to my friends Rob and Wade's Lake House.
Dining Out for Life
Tonight some friends and I enjoyed dinner to support a good cause. See if you can Dine Out for Life in your area.
Randy, Greg, Eric, Omar and Gordon enjoy a yummy dinner at Figo Pasta.
Pensacola Pelican
I was in Pensacola, Florida today. The weather was nice and everything went well.
When I arrived at the airport for my return flight to Atlanta, this pelican greeted me.
Now as you can see, he's quite a celebrity with all those dividers keeping all the undesirables out but he was nice enough to let me take this photo before his people saw him to his limousine.
Sunday Afternoon Bars with David
My friend David told me the gay rugby team was washing cars with their shirts off at Burkharts and I jumped in mine to head over to Burkharts.
Open your eyes Jason because you look great in those shorts!!
Hand in Hand with friends
Tonight I joined some friends to enjoy some good company and cool brews. Lovely Day Indeed!
Sunset and Happy Hour at Patrick’s Pub
After my long drive from Atlanta, we headed down to the Battery and walked by the water.
This is a little pleasure boat on the water
First Day in Phoenix
Today was my first day in the state of Arizona. So many cactus, and not much grass.
It’s No April Fools, It’s a Peace Rally
After enjoying a Sushi lunch with my new friends Philip and Jorge, and a trip to the DeKalb County Farmer's Market to drop off recycling, I went to a Peace Rally in Piedmont Park with my friend David.
Post Rally Refreshments at Burkhart’s
After the Rally, we needed to "refresh" ourselves. We made a quick pit-stop at David's deluxe apartment in the sky.
Fort DeSoto’s North Beach
Today, after work, I visited America's #1 Beach 2005, Fort DeSoto's North Beach
The Jenkins Clan Says Goodbye to Daphne & Velma with a Bang!
The Jenkins Clan said goodby to Daphne & Velma who are moving to Louisville, Kentucky.
Now, the folks at Drag-O-Rama.net don't do anything half-way, so it was full throttle "Bringing Glam, Glitter and Entertainment" all night!
The Jenkins Clan Says Goodbye to Daphne & Velma with a Bang!
The Jenkins Clan Says
Goodbye to Daphne & Velma with a Bang!
Eric and Mike’s Birthday Party
Eric and Mike happen to have the same
birthday which means they have to celebrate it twice as
much.
Besides enjoying my
Pomegranate juice, Lime Perrier and Vodka spritzers, I enjoyed the company of
Eric and Mike's wonderful group of friends. There was an A-List crowd as the
Evite promised and I even performed a few karaoke numbers for a packed
downstairs TV room.
Eric and Mike -
the birthday couple.
Omar and
Tim
Omar and everyone's favorite sea
horse
Tim and
Jon
Gene and
Javier
Sadie hanging out during the
party
Eddie and
Lakegan
Harrison and his new
beau
Butch and the
boys
Felix and
friends
Duane laughing and Omar
dancing
Turning
it!
Omar and
Mark
Oh crap! Eric's drinking Mad
Dog.
Mark
smiling
Let the dancing
continue
The Mad Dog
boys.
Chillin'
Omar and Eric dancing to Missy
Elliott's 'Really Hot' and another reason why I can't run for public office.
The birthday
cake
A drunken version of the Happy
Birthday song.
Mike and
Eric
Eric and
Duane
Damn that cake is
good
Gifts
galore!
Dinner at Ricardo’s with Josh
I was invited to dinner at Ricardo's tonight to meet some of Josh's friends.Ricardo and Josh
Atlanta Eagle Night (Pah-Caw!)
Tonight was all about the Atlanta Eagle.
Chuck has been wanting to visit this bar since his arrived and tonight he got his wish fulfilled.
Chuck outside the Atlanta Eagle with a Harley motorbike.
Annabelle LaRue Jenkins is born!
Tonight, my half-sister AnnaBelle LaRue Jenkins was born. Her birth coincided with
Pinkie Jenkins' birthday and also Velma Jenkins' birthday and from what I hear, she had an incredible time!
First of all, a tremendous thank you and an even bigger GRACIAS goes to the Jenkins Clan for everything they did to make this night possible for AnnaBelle LaRue Jenkins.
They were helpful, professional, bawdy, twisted and fiercely funny during the whole event.
So, many thanks from Omar, AnnaBelle LaRue Jenkins' half-brother. Muah!
This is Omar at the Jenkins Clan Compound in Atlanta,
OK who am I kidding it's their trailer!
Las Vegas Day 05
We finished our work at the convention and headed out to see more of Las Vegas OUTSIDE of a building instead of inside -
since we hadn't been outside in what seemed like days.
The Luxor's Obelisk
and Sphinx
My "Other" Show
Inside Cesar's Palace after a delicious lunch at The Palm.
A place to meditate which this boy's parents obviously didn't respect.
Omar outside of the Bellagio
Chihuly Glass in the lobby of the Bellagio
More Chihuly
Outside of Paris
The Eiffel Tower
Outside a Parisian cafe
OK, so Omar likes the Eiffel Tower
The arch
Wayne Newton in Vegas!
Omar outside of Paris
A scary clown
Dinner with Ricardo, Josh and ‘Lia
After far too much time in traffic and not Omi-Time, I met Ricardo, Josh and 'Lia for dinner.Ricardo and Josh are so
damn cute I can't stand it!
Kansas City Visit
I visited Kansas City, Missouri to visit with some very good friends and I even got the chance to meet some other podcasters. It's cold in Kansas City today, there is still snow on the ground from the bad weather a few days ago.
Georgia Aquarium
The Georgia Aquarium is Atlanta's newest attraction and I must say it's quite
impressive. I felt like a little kid exploring and learning about the animals living there.
Shane from the UK
Our new friend from the UK was here in Atlanta and we had a great time getting to know him better and learning more about European life.
Alfredo eating sushi - He tried Unagi - Freshwater Eel.
Toy Party 2005
This evening, I attended the annual Toy Party. This is a charity event to benefit deserving children.
Festivus 2005
Festivus...
the feats of strength, the airing of grievances, the admiring of the aluminum pole. One year, many years ago, Frank Costanza went to buy a doll for his son. The doll was destroyed in a battle with another shopper, but out of that a new holiday was born: a Festivus for the rest of us.
Savannah River Queens
Mr. Larry Vader joined me in Savannah, GA for a quick visit and some dinner.
Thanksgiving Feast
Tonight we enjoyed a wonderful feast with good friends and of course delicious food. Alfredo made a cameo because he is partied out! What? I know I didn't believe it either but see for yourself.
Thanksgiving Friday
Shopping, running around town, waiting for my car, eating Chinese food and movie watching.
Didier and Troy’s Dinner and a Movie
Didier and Troy hosted a potluck dinner and a movie at their townhouse.
Friday Night Getting Our Roxx Off
Tonight, I had the pleasure of meeting one of our Atlanta listeners. You might remember when I mentioned Chris' email on the show. I met Chris and his buddies at Roxx, a local Atlanta watering hole, for a bite to eat and a couple of drinks.
Atlantic Station Shopping
Atlantic Station is a new development in Atlanta
featuring shops, condos and restaurants.
Atlanta Queercaster Tragic Bar Tour
It's amazing what happens when you mention something in a podcast, and send a few emails - it becomes a reality. Tonight,
my cohost Alfredo and I teamed up with John and Chris, from the ExtraSpecial Podcast for a night of tragic bar fun also known as the Atlanta Queercaster Tragic Bar Tour. We met at Chris' lovely home. We enjoyed a few starter cocktails and I interrogated Chris about every piece of computer and/or electronics equipment he owns.
Miss Mess 2K5
This is a chance to show how much of a mess you can actually be.
After a little lunch in midtown.Omar, Tim, Donald and Roy, both visiting from Texas
Travis in Atlanta
My frat brother Travis is town tonight to let a few wild hairs loose in Atlanta.
I met him out at the Dark Horse Tavern in VA Highlands.
Gay Pride Day: Unite and Act, Atlanta’s 35th Pride Celebration
The Atlanta Gay Pride parade 2005, Atlanta's 35th Anniversary Celebration
"Unite and Act"
Gay Pride Saturday: Pink Pool Party and Piedmont Park
Adam, in the red suit, and his friend.
Omar and his pink friend.
Jello Shots anyone?
Group shot with Hula Omar in the back.
Now to Piedmont Park:Omar and Alfredo at the Delta
booth.
Alfredo, 'Kique and Omar.
Bobby, Alex and 'Kique at the Delta booth.
People at Piedmont Park.
Baton Bob
Henry and 'Kique at the Tylenol PM booth.
Girl at Joe's on Juniper
'Kique
Gay Pride Friday: Out at Bars
Alfredo is ready for a night on the town.
Disco ball, rainbow flags
Mary Edith Pitts, a local drag entertainer.
The End.
Afternoon Lake Party and Woofs With My New Friends
This afternoon my friends Alex and 'Kique (Spanish nickname for Enrique), and Alfredo invited me to a party at a friend's home by the lake. This was my first exposure to deaf culture. 'Kique is deaf and he began as our guide but since everyone was so friendly, it was really easy to get to know the great people at the party.The Fantastic Four:
Omar, 'Kique, Alex, and Alfredo
Hanging by Alex & ‘Kique’s pool
After a Piña Colada upstairs, we ventured to the pool to enjoy the sun.
Omar, Alex, 'Kique (Spanish nickname for Enrique), and Sam.
Enjoying Kansas City
Liberty Memorial Museum, America's National WWI Museum
Omar and the carvings.
Close up.
The tower.
The view of Kansas City from the Memorial.
General John J. Pershing.
Union Station.
Inside Union Station.
Omar inside Union Station.
Now for lunch and shopping we visited The Plaza district.
Having celebrated its 75th anniversary in 1997,
The Plaza is the oldest shopping center in the country and attracts 10 million tourists each year.
Along with some of the country's chic-est fashions and major labels,
shoppers will find true Kansas City originals.
Modeled after Seville, Spain, one of Kansas City's sister cities, the area features magnificent Spanish tile, piazzas, and terra cotta rooftops. The Plaza also did more than its share to earn Kansas City the title "City of Fountains." Perched on nearly every corner, each fountain is steeped in history and has its own story to tell.
After shopping, a group of us went to see Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the Sith.
Later that night, I noticed there was fire emanating from a large bowl atop the memorial.
Time for Dinner.
Rosedale's - where we didn't eat.
And Jack Stack - where we did enjoy a great meal albeit quite late in the evening.
They say you're supposed to grab the bull by the horns, but I couldn't reach them, so I got a hold of what I could reach.
Jim and Maria’s Rehearsal Dinner
After arriving in Kansas City, getting to the hotel, attending the rehearsal at the church, we made it to Salvatore's Italian restaurant.
And let's just get one thing squared away right now. Smiley and Jim are one and the same. For going on 15 years that's what I've called him, so it's hard to all of a sudden call him Jim now. When his mom would call our apartment in college and ask for Jim, I'd say she had the wrong number and hang up on her. Of course, I would never do that now, but I digress so here we go:
Randy’s Graduation Party
Tonight I helped celebrate our friend Randy's graduation from Law School.
The cake has a boa!!!
Randy's Graduation Dance
Guys "protecting" the keg of beer in the backyard.
Post Graduation Day
Thankfully, I was able to get almost 8 hours of sleep and woke up to lots of family in the house, coffee, food and
conversation. Although everyone was returning home today, we managed to enjoy some food, of course, and fun before the day was out.
My brother Edel, finally appeared after a deep sea fishing trip with friends - I think it's amusing that
HE"S the one with the rainbow shirt.
The fish he caught - and we later ate.
With my godparents
My cousin Troy's hobby is flying model airplanes and helicopters.
In a field behind our house he gave us a demonstration.
Troy's helicopter
However, back at the house, the food was being prepared, OK, fried.
Getting the fish ready
My dad on the grill
Hector and Joyce
Edel and his fishing buddy
Eric and Trudi eating
Hector’s Graduation Day
Today my youngest brother Hector graduated from Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University.
We had to get up VERY early in the morning to be able to get to the graduation ceremonies in Daytona Beach, FL.
Graduations are always a very big deal in my family. Since there were more important things to do in Cuba at the time - like survive - I'm a part of the first generation in my family to go to college.
The fruit of our parents' sacrifices become tangible in graduations that can be celebrated.
Much to our dismay, however, Hector's graduation was held under the relentless Florida sun that baked us all during what would later become the first of the two graduation ceremonies.
Valentine’s Day Thoughts
This day is a yet another reminder that yet another year has passed without a significant romantic relationship in my life. A friend recently read my website and remarked, "I am astounded by your availability" - well you know what, so am I. Every year about this time, I contemplate past relationships, why they didn't work out, what I could have done
differently but I always end with the same conclusion: I'm glad I'm still NOT in those relationships and I'm glad I learned the lessons I did. Every time someone in a relationship asks me, "Are you seeing anyone?" I feel surge of disappointment, regret and sadness. And then when the inevitable answer, "No, no one special" is given, it's always, "Well, you'll meet someone soon" or something to that effect. What it sounds like is, "Cheer up Jan, you'll make the team next year." Why is that people both hetero and homo always feel the need to ask if you're in a relationship when they are? I've been single for a grand majority of my life so if I've actually made it to the 2nd date - TRUST ME, everyone would know.
One part of me feels like I've got so much to offer a partner in a relationship. I feel like some really great years of my life are passing me by without having anyone to share my experiences within a romantic rather than platonic setting. And I certainly don't need a
national holiday to remind me that I don't have someone and yet for some reason
millions of other people do. However, another part of me is grateful I am
capable of surviving on my own and forging my path through life almost
single-handedly despite the many obstacles I've faced.
When one thinks about Valentine's
Day, no one really thinks about a priest performing marriages against the order
of Claudius II in 270 BCE when sending their little cards, flowers or
chocolates these days. Claudius II thought bachelors made better soldiers - no
one to pine for while fighting, but Valentine continued to perform secret
marriage ceremonies until he was apprehended by the Romans and put to death.
Another legend has it that Valentine, imprisoned by Claudius, fell in love with
the daughter of his jailer. But before he was executed, he allegedly sent her a
letter signed "from your Valentine." [Taken from InfoPlease.com]
My friend Lisa used to feel the
same way I do but she had a change of heart when a friend told her that
ridiculous as Valentine's Day gets, it is a way to tell people in your life that
you love them. So every Valentine's Day she sends cards to all the people that
she loves stating to them how much she cares about them and why. It's actually
the best way to deal with this 2nd most commercial
holiday.
The older I get, and let's
face it one only starts talking like that, the older we get, I feel more and
more comfortable with myself, in my own skin and with the person I've become. I
would never want someone to "complete me" as I am a whole and complete person as
I stand today. However, do I wish to be in a relationship with a great guy? -
you bet! And am I bitter about not having a Valentine again this year?
absolutely!
La Mala Educación (Bad Education)
Tonight, I saw a very entertaining and unique film by my favorite director:
Pedro Almodóvar.
His new film in called La Mala Educación and known here in the US by the name Bad Education.
This is the movie poster:
After seeing this movie, I agree completely with this review by Kevin Howell from New York City.
"...It's Almodovar's meatiest and most complex script in years. Although you may be confused early on as you're trying to figure out whats going on, its all revealed later and very satisfyingly. Gael Garcia Bernal is outstanding in his multi-dimensional, multi-character performance. Alberto Iglesia's music is wonderful--a homage to Bernard Herrmann.
The film is rated NC-17, which has more to do with the MPAA Board's homophobia than anything else. Sure, its a sexy drama with elements adult plotpoints, but had the sex scenes in this film been between a man and a woman, rather than two men, this would have easily gotten an R rating. All of the sex scenes are artfully filmed (there is no frontal nudity) and even the subplot concerning a pedophile priest is handled with care."
2005 Sales Summit Cruise to Bahamas
I just returned from a cruise to the Bahamas whose main purpose was a business meeting. It's amazing how much time you have for business meetings when you're a captive audience on a floating hotel. We had quite a busy schedule but you know I made time to have some fun.
Our ship.
On Thursday night, there was so much wind on deck at a reception that everyone was wind blown.
Our first night we dined at tropical restaurant.
Our meetings started off with bang.
Sandy's new favorite baby, Jack.
On Friday, after my meetings, I managed to snap a few pics in Nassau.
Omar and Regis
Omar and JP.
Rochelle and Tim.
It was by very fortunate coincidence that my cousin Jane, her husband Peter and their daughters Daniela and Marisa were also on the ship.
They met Cinderella: a huge deal.
Very long hallways.
Enjoying some late night fun in the 18+ only bar.
Singing the Material Girl with her back-up performer is Christina and JP.
But wait there's more - line dancing.
The Fresh Catch of the Day, although not that anyone was biting.
Castaway Cay, rumor has it, is Gilligan's Island.
We had to walk to the other side of the island to reach the 18+ only beach. Thankfully, we didn't have to walk back - we took the little tram.
Ahh, at last.
I guess Donald Duck flew here.
Beats being in the office.
A few fruity drinks later, JP was making out with the natives.
Back to the ship.
Little Jack learning early how to take advantage of happy hour.
Christina as Gloria Gaynor singing, "I will survive!"
Views from my porthole (I said PORT hole!!)
In Nassau.
At Castaway Cay.
At port.
Today’s Astrological Forecast
Today's Astrological Forecast
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Thanksgiving 2004
I stayed in Atlanta for Thanksgiving and dined with Lakegan, Eddie, Jeff and Rio.
Rio's Thanksgiving treat (OK, so I gave him some turkey later)
Alexander’s Baptism
I'm a godfather - that's right, I know it's hard to believe, but I'm a godfather. My cousin's only son, Alexander is now my godson. It is a special honor that I take seriously, not for any religious reason because I would have never done it for one of those, but because my cousin Jane has always been a great person, a great example and it's a way for me to honor her and her family.
Alexander did have a bit of a fever in the morning and wasn't feeling very good. His personality is very pleasant usually.
Alexander's older sisters, Daniela and Marisa.
My cousin Jane, Alexander, Daniela and Marisa.
This is little Alexander. My mother is the godmother and she had to buy him this outfit which makes look like a little Cubanito complete with a gold chain.
Peter, Jane and Alexander
Me, Peter, Alexander, Jane and my mother.
The entire group.
Alexander and Omar.
Omar and Alexander.
I had to have a little chat with Jesus about a few things.
After the baptism we went to eat lunch at a local restaurant called Conchy Joe's I think. Alexander and I had a chance to chat before everyone got there and here's what he had to say.
He's ready to speak spanish, we'll at least the rolling rrrrrr's anyway. When Alexander is very upset he rolls them.
Omar’s Post Election State of the Union Thoughts
of the Union Thoughts
Halloween Party 2004
I went to a Halloween Party at Curt & Tom's house and had a wonderful time.
I went as Woody, The Gay Cowboy. The following is what I managed to capture digitally.
The Hosts Curt and Tom.
Angels in America
I watched all 6 hours of the HBO mini-series, Angels in America this week.
I loved it, I can easily see why it was nominated for so many Golden Globe Awards. I highly recommend it.
Georgians Against Discrimination
Georgians Against Discrimination is a statewide coalition of diverse organizations working together to defeat the anti-gay constitutional amendment, which will be on our state ballot on November 2nd.
Shopping and Nightlife
We haven't done much today. We were all up quite late. We watched the Kerry-Bush debate Anna recorded on her DVR.
We've eaten breakfast but now Anne is snoozing on the sofa, Anna is on the phone and I'm typing this account of my weekend so far. Hopefully we'll get it in gear and go out and do something soon.
Weekend in Washington DC
I'm sitting here listening to The Smith's Hatful of Hollow and recalling my weekend in Washington DC with my friends Anna and Anne.
Here we go...
Friday, October 8, 2004
I'm in our country's capital this Columbus Day weekend. My friend Anne flew in from Charlotte and I flew in from Atlanta to meet up with our friend Anna who lives in Fairfax, VA.
I love DC for there is a palpable feeling of patriotism and civic pride when you're here. Today we went to the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum. I ordered tickets in advance which did seem to make entry easier. There was quite a security line, so if you go, be prepared to wait, even if you have tickets. Now we didn't plan very well. It's about a 10 minute drive from Anna's place to the Vienna/Fairfax Metrotrain station. Then, it's about a half hour ride to the Smithsonian station near the museum.
We got there just after 11am without having eating breakfast. After 4pm when we emerged from the museum we were not only emotionally but physically drained as well. The Holocaust Museum is an
extremely moving and powerful place. It recalls the events of that atrocity, with incredible detail and honestly. It successfully maintains the dignity of those Jews, Romas (Gypsies) and homosexuals who's basic human rights were wrongly and violently stripped from them.
There were a couple of events during that time which I was unaware of. First the voyage of the St. Louis, which was a ship whose purpose was to transport jews from Europe to Cuba and
safety from Hitler.
Unknown to the jews on that trip, their destination visas were denied before they left Europe. Ultimately they were returned to Eurpoe after being denied to dock in Cuba and the US.
I knew about homosexuals being held in camps alongside Jews but I didn't know the number was over 10,000 and 90% of the homosexuals imprisoned were men. They were identified with a pink
triangle which is why an upside-down pink triangle is now a symbol of gay pride.
And, unlike the Jews, the homosexuals were kept in prison after liberation. In fact, Hitler's awful laws kept persecuting homosexuals until 1969 in Germany. There are so many artifacts and historical pieces which make the permanent exhibit so powerful. I won't go into more detail about the sections of the exhibit because I think everyone needs to visit this place at least once to know what really happened.
I couldn't avoid being overwhelmed several times by what I saw. Tears ran down my face on more than one occasion out of sheer reaction to the images and situations presented. And all
of the exhibit is presented so tastefully and devoid of political propaganda.
We were hungry and wanted to grab a quick bite to eat. We decided to grab a sandwich at the subway in the Museum of Natural History so we could do more sightseeing. This sculpture was outside.
This is the flag draped over the Pentagon on September 11, 2001.
I actually forget what building this is.
Here I am with one of my favorite monuments.
They may be prohibited now, but we'll get to the drinking part later.
After the Holocaust we walked past the Washington Monument and the White House. We made our way to the World War II
memorial which is brand new and is situated between the Lincoln Memorial and the Washington Monument.
If you look closely you can see Anne and Anna chatting just under where the Capital building is seen.
The veterans seen below were discussing their experiences in the war.
Winner for best hair of the day goes to...
Then we went to the Vietnam Memorial. I've known about it but had never seen it. There is something about seeing all those names on that dark wall for yourself and knowing each one represents someone who was killed that gives you a chill.
The Lincoln Memorial is also another place of great impact. It majestically stands on that hill. After you climb up all those steps, and standing before the larger than life seated Lincoln: it makes one feel insignificant and childlike in the face of freedom. Then turning around and seeing those giant columns andlooking out onto the reflecting pond, the WWII memorial, the Washington Monument and the Capital in the background is
all quite a sight to behold. The weather has been incredible. It's been in the 70s during the day and the low 60s at night with not a cloud in the sky - lovely.
Planes flying into Ronald Reagan National Airport fly REALLY, REALLY close to all the monuments.
From the Lincoln Memorial we visited the Korean War Memorial which was eerie. The ghostly figures are haunting.
The image below is of the wall in the picture above. The flash reflected the skyline behind me and produced this
great image.
There are some unique squirrels running around here. We saw white ones but only one black one.
I had to take advantage of the great light and the time on the camera.
I have yet to actually see the Jefferson Memorial up close but I did snap a few pics of it.
After getting home we had to all take showers and get ready to go back in the city to check out the nightlife.
We wanted to take some pictures while we still looking good.
We made it to Dupont Circle and ate a Japanese restaurant called Raku. It featured Asian tapas and was very tasty. I had a passionfruit limeade drink with citrus vodka which was heaven.
We then went to a bar that Anne had been to the last time she was in DC and struck up a conversation with these nice straight guys, Craig and Steve.
After a couple of drinks there they directed us to a very gay bar called JRs. It was there I met a very nice 'bloke' named Ian who was in DC on business. It's always great to meet cute, down-to-earth guys, I just wish I could meet more that live on the same continent I do. Anyway, it was a pleasure to have crossed paths with him and who knows I might see again sooner than I think. Life is funny that way.
I love this picture of Anna and Anne - looking good girls!
Chattanooga Daytrippers
With a visitor from Switzerland in tow, David, Lakegan and I drove up to Chattanooga for a look around. We got there around lunch time and spent the afternoon sightseeing.
Brunch, City Tavern & The Drive Back to Atlanta
Anne, Maureen and I had brunch at Pike's near the Camden Square area of Charlotte.
They had a great brunch buffet but they didn't have mimosas!
What did we do? We went to City Tavern.
Brunch, City Tavern & The Drive Back to Atlanta
The Drive Back to Atlanta
Good Summary of George W. Bush
A friend sent me this and I enjoyed it so much I had to share it -- Seriously!
Denis and Lorraine’s Wedding
Denis and Lorraine
at Holy Family Catholic
Church
My mom, dad, and brother
Edel.
Lorraine at
reception
My cousin Shannon and my
mother.
My mom, my Tio Luis, Denis, Lorraine
and my dad.
Karen's sister on her
birthday
Edel &
Karen
Friday Night in Decatur & VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
& VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
Friday Night in Decatur & VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
& VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
Friday Night in Decatur & VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
& VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
Friday Night in Decatur & VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
& VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
Friday Night in Decatur & VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
Friday Night in Decatur
& VA Higlands with Anne & Maureen
My Favorite Cartoon: Gatchaman or G-Force
Growing up a 'Latch-Key Kid' in Orlando, FL, my brothers and I spent a great deal of time watching TV.
And, not unlike many other kids our age, we watched a lot and I mean A LOT of TV. One of the my
all-time favorite cartoons was G-Force or as it is known in Japan, Gatchaman. Of
course, none of us here had ever heard of Gatchaman growing up, we only knew it
as G-Force or Battle of the Planets.
This Land Video
There is a great site call Jib Jab with a pretty funny video I'd like share with you. Whether you are a Democrat or a Republican, I think you will enjoy this short little video.
Click here to go to the Jib Jab site and see the video.
Lisa’s Birthday Picnic Dinner in Piedmont Park
Picnic Dinner in Piedmont Park
Happy 4th of July 2004
Click here for the 4th of July 2004 pics.
I visited my friend Anne in Charlotte for this holiday weekend. I've known Anne since 9th grade so needless to say we've got our own long-running jokes and memories that still make us laugh uncontrollably.
Friday night Anne went from being our DD (Designated Driver) to being our FDD (You'll have to ask her what that stands for.) Saturday, we went to Einstein Bros Bagels, had some coffee, and recapped the evening's events. We also saw Fahrenheit 9/11 and I have to say that I'm really glad that movie is out so people can know about some things before November 2nd. We went to see Anne's roommate, Al, in a local production of a play about Lenny Bruce in which he recounted Bruce's life from Lenny's perspective in the afterlife. It was a monologue, and Al was genuine, evocative and believable as Lenny Bruce - I'm so glad I attended.Later we went to Thomas Street Tavern and I got to enjoy a few cold Guinnesses.
Sunday, Anne went for a 10 mile run while I slept in. Then I took Rio to the dog park with Jennifer and he got very dirty but did get to play with some other dogs. Like an idiot I put some dog treats in the pocket in my shorts - bad idea. All these days were attacking me attempting to get the treats. I think I actually got more dirty than Rio but I'm glad he got some exercise. After a quick stop at Dikadee's Deli so I could get a sandwich, we were off to Maureen's pool. It was nice to catch some sun, swim in a nice pool and watch the really sexy guys drinking on the other side of the pool.As you can see from the pictures, we saw some fireworks from downtown Charlotte, although they were about 45 minutes late getting started. It was after the fireworks that we went to Ri-Ra's Irish Pub.
Monday, July 5th was music day. Anne has an Mp3 player but waits until I'm in town to load music on it. So we were off to the Caribou Coffee at 1531 East Blvd., enjoyed a latte, wirelessly cruised the web and ripped some tunes for Anne and Maureen's Mp3 players. This was topped off by a visit to Brixx Pizzafor lunch at 3.30pm. I had the usual Brixx Salad and a pizza. This time I opted for the Barbecue Pizza instead of the usual Spicy Shrimp. I just love that place.
2004 Atlanta Gay Pride Celebration
I tried to take as many pictures as possible but my camera's batteries died before the parade ended. And before it started POURING down raining -- not that it stopped the celebrations!
Check out all the parade pics by clicking here.
Jonathan, Omar and Time
Barefoot In The Park with Jane Fonda and Robert Redford
Jane Fonda and Robert Redford
Shambhala
The mission of the Shambhala Meditation Center of Atlanta is to offer meditation practice as a path to discovering the gentleness, fearlessness, and intelligence inherent in every human being, and to build a community based on human goodness and dignity.
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Grafton on Sunset Blvd in LA
I went to LA on business and stayed at The Grafton on Sunset.
I had a poolside room near this relaxing waterfall.
This is the view from the purple lounger on the far right in the picture above.
Of course there were all these great black and white photographs everywhere like this one of
Rita Hayworth in my room.
Sunday morning chillin’
This morning I woke up before 9am and have been playing around on the laptop all morning.
While quietly working, I looked on my patio rail and saw a new friend there.
It's been nice to have a quiet morning with Yerba Mate which I made into a Yerba Mate Latte - yum.
I guess I'll go outside and enjoy this beautiful sunny day.
WH Auden
W. H. Auden has been one of
my favorite poets since the move, Four Weddings and a Funeral. The excerpt that
John Hannah read during the funeral was so moving to me, I had to find out more
about the person that wrote it. The first section below is what was read in the
movie but the second section he details his love for John.
Guinness
I've been drinking Guinness for a while now. It's my favorite beer. I've got to say I think the closest thing to Guinness on tap is Guinness from the can. It's the only beer I'll drink out of a can and it's the only one with a contraption inside that mimics the pour on draught.
Bowling Event
Boys, Balls & Booze Bowling
My friend Lakegan thought it would be a good idea to have monthly events where
we could round up a bunch of fun-loving guys and enjoy an evening of fellowship.
This bowling night was our March event. Everyone had a great time despite our scores.
Oh yeah, and there plenty of comments about balls - the bowling kind.
Check out the pics by clicking here.
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Lakegan
Atlanta Bucks Fundraiser
We went out to support the rugby team and of course check the boys on the team.
Most of these jocks are gay so it's OK to stare.
We bought tickets for the raffle from my friend John.
LA Trip
Trip to Los Angeles, CA for Omar's West Coast debut.
Check out the pics by clicking here.
I went out to LA for work but decided to stay out for an extra day and explore
West Hollywood and the Malibu. I got a chance to experience West Hollywood,
The Getty Center, the oddities at Venice Beach and the beauty of Malibu.
The Broken Hearts Club
The Broken Hearts Club
is another favorite of mine, it really spoke to me when it was released and it was refreshing to actually be able to relate to characters on the screen.
The Mod Squad
Softballs, Hard Batts, and Cold Beer Bust. This beer bust benefitted the Hotlanta Sharks
and Stingrays which are gay softball teams. They were recruiting but we of
course were checking out the team.
My friend Matt, (me) and Lakegan were there and ready to have a good time.
We met a great guy named Jon.
We met some other new friends that night as well.
(Left to right: Jon, Steve, Ethan, Bradley, Omar & Matt)
Steve enjoying my armband
Steve and Jon misbehaving
31st Birthday
I turned 31 today and 'things just keep getting better'!
Although I was at a conference with my boss, it was a great birthday. I love my
job, I love my boss and I got to enjoy a great dinner!
Below is Sandy wishing me a happy birthday.
My friend Lisa joined us for dinner, too.
Sandy, me, Tana and Mark.
Cool Clouds
Emma and Oscar
My good friend Sanjay and Jodi have a wonderful little girl named Emma
who we got to visit with this month. Below she's enjoying the cream cheese
more than her bagel.
Auntie Lisa with Emma
Lee hosted an Oscar party at his condo where he made Margaritas.
And we all know that CG loves him some Margaritas.
And to my very big surprise he made this great birthday cake for me.
I met Lee about this time last year and I'm so glad he's in my life.
TNG: One of my favs
Star Trek: The Next Generation is by far one of my favorite sci-fi series. I have several seasons on DVD and am always willing to watch re-runs on Spike TV. I know I've seen every episode of the 7 seasons but they are so good that's is usually good for a political statement or just a laugh.
I don't go to conventions or anything but if I were to go to Las Vegas you can be I'd go to the Hilton and get assimilated by the Borg.
Tana’s Shower
My coworker Tana has been so helpful in getting me settled and up to speed
with my relatively new job. It was so much fun to help make this shower a surprise for her.
We had our conference call so our cross-country team could be in on her surprise at the same time.
I had the task of photographing it so the rest of the team could later see the
expression on her face when she saw what they'd gotten her.
The Lord of the Rings
Three Rings for the Elven-kings under the sky,
Seven for the Dwarf-lords in their halls of stone,
Nine for the Mortal Men doomed to die,
One for the Dark Lord on his dark throne
In the Land of Mordor where the Shadows lie.
One Ring to rule them all, One Ring to find them,
One Ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind them
In the Land of Mordor where the Shadows lie.
I have hairy feet and when I was in high school some guys said I had hobbit feet.
I never really knew what that meant until "The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring" was released.
It was then that I was offended and hungry to know what happened to the ring.
My friend lisa bought me the definitive LOTR book for xmas 2002. It is the most complete and accurate version of the novel by J. R. R. Tolkien. "
The Lord of the Rings is often erroneously called a trilogy, when it is in fact a single novel, consisting of six books plus appendices, published for convenience in three volumes."
Netflix
If you like to watch movies but don't like to wait in lines at the Blockbuster or worry about late fees then you should look into Netflix.
I've been a member since January of 2002, and it's been great. They have a great selection of all types of movies including gay/lesbian flicks that not all blockbusters carry.
Down With Love
Down With Love is another favorite of mine.
It is a great modern celebration of the classic "Pillow Talk" type movies that Rock Hudson and Doris Day made.
Frank Herbert’s DUNE
Another Sci-fi series I really enjoy is DUNE,
I've seen the original DUNE with Sting release in 1984 but the series the Sci-Fi channel produced was great. I have the entire DUNE mini-series including Children of Dune on DVD.
I usually get so into it that I have to watch all 5 DVDs!
2004 Summit
2004 Sales Summit is a company meeting I attended. The theme was It's about U,
but I think Jamie just wanted to fit in because his shirt matched the painting in the
hospitality suite almost perfectly.
We stayed at a golf resort, that was nice in the morning.
It was great to see the team in person.
The Gala at the end of all the seminars was a great time. There is nothing like
having a beer with the boss.
Mobile, AL Visit
In Mobile, AL for work and met up with some fraternity brothers.
Overall, I had a great college experience. I got a degree and made some lasting friendships.
This work trip to Mobile, allowed me the opportunity to catch up with some brothers
I hadn't seen in quite a while.
Tim, my fraternity brother and coworker and I had lunch with Jason.
(Jason, (me) and Tim)
When you look around the restaurant, there are all these things on the walls.
From garden implements to whiskey bottles.
Tim and I also got to hang out with Travis and Kevin, seen below.
Now, believe it or not, the photo below is what is left of the apartment complex
I lived in for 3 years while in college. Mirror Lake was so bad, it was condemned
and burned by the local fire dept in an exercise. Just behind where I'm pointing is
where my apartment used to be.
January 2004 Wrap Up
The started with a the realization that I've lived in the same apartment for an
entire year and needed to buy a sofa. I met some great guys in January and
kicked the year off to great start.
Taz introduced me to Curtis and John, seen below.
I bought a sofa in January and finally began life without a futon.
My longtime friend Anne gave me the OK to buy it.
>I met my friend Matt in January.
AND, I also met Eric who continues to make me laugh every time I see him.
Rio in the Park
Lee and I have had some great times with our little dog, Rio who is almost a year old.
He was a stray in Alabama and it hastaken a lot of love and puppy chow for him to be
comfortable in his new life in Atlanta. Today we went out to the park and played around
with our favorite dog.
Check out the complete photo gallery by clicking here.
See how much he loves his Papi!
The Color Purple
The Color Purple is one of my favorite movies of all time.
I simply had to buy the newly digitized double DVD version. Mainly because the VHS copy I have is worn out through the table scene!